Friday, June 29, 2007

BFF








GIRLS IN MY CIRCLE




When I was little, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend, and then I started to become a woman.




And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up, God would show you the best in many friends.




One friend is needed when you're going through things with your man.






Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your mom.




Another will sit beside you in the bleachers as you delight in your children and their activities.




Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.




One friend will say,'Let's cry together,' another, 'Let's fight together,' another, 'Let's walk away together.'






One friend will meet your spiritual need, another your shoe fetish, another your love for movies, another will be with you in your season of confusion, another will be your clarifier, another the wind beneath your wings.






But whatever their assignment in your life, on whatever the occasion, on whatever the day, or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair pulled back, or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself... those are your best friends.









It may all be wrapped up in one woman, but for many, it's wrapped up in several..



one from 7th grade,



one from high school,



several from the college years,



a couple from old jobs,



on some days your mother,



on some days your neighbor,



on others, your sisters,



and on some days, your daughters.






So whether they've been your friend for 20 minutes or 20years,

Let us celebrate the women in our lives..

5 comments:

SET said...

I AM GLAD TO HAVE A SITER I AM VERY CLOSED TO. I AM GLAD TO HAVE A FEW BEST FRIENDS I CAN SHARE MY ALL, MAYBE ALMOST MY ALL AND THEY SUPPORT ME ENDLESSLY. IT'S BEEN HARD TO FIND VERY GOOD FRIENDS LIKE THEM BUT THERE ARE STILL WONDERFUL WOMEN TO MEET, I JUST THINK IT SLOWS DOWN WHEN ONE'S LIFE GET TOO INTERPERSONAL AND MAKES LESS TIME TO MEET AND GETTING TO KNOW SOMEONE VERY WELL.

Anonymous said...

im glad to have read this cos ppl always give me a weird look when i tell them i have 6 best friends... male and female... they think i'm supposed to have one.. its really hard to explain that some of them are best for certain things... certain ones understand certain things more... its good to know you understand...great great writeup mami.. you really are a fantastic writer!

Discombobulated Diva said...

man... i'm fortunate to have some of the best BFFs in the world, both males and femals... those special individuals that no matter what i need or how stupid i may act, they are always there for me and allow me to be there for them in their times of need... they are definitely gifts from God and i am very thankful for all of them!

~DD

classybabe said...

I have some cool friends who i know always have my back and it's a nice feeling

My 2 cents said...

All,
it's funny I wrote this when I myself are dealing with sheisty untrustworthy friends. I'm still celebrating them all the same.